Reggie's thought #4

Yo! Hey its me Reggie and its time for another Reggie's thoughts. This will be the 4th thought. I always been told that I try to hard when it comes to some things, but I never understood what people meant or was trying to say about me. Like when they say it do they mean it in a nice way or a mean way? Well my question for tonight is "when someone say you are trying to hard ,what is the way to cha...nge that?". When someone say you are trying to hard are saying it to be hurtful? Well it depends on the reason and the person, like for example what if its boyfriend and girlfriend situation and the boy or girl say to their spouse that they are trying to hard. That normally means the spouse is doing to much , or basically being a annoyance I guess is the best word. Me personally have been told that I try to hard and the reason is that because I always tried to force or rush things, but I have learned from that mistake now. Another example is like when a boy is trying to get with a girl. The way the boy can try to hard is by keep trying ask her out when they just met. So the thing is how to change and not seem like you're trying so hard to someone. Rule#1.) Give the person space and don't try to hover them all the time. Rule #2.) Don't rush the relationship between you and that person,and Rule#3.) Try to interact with more people than that one person,so you will have the less of a ugre to talk to just that one person. The main thing is to keep yourself and your blanced. Well that's its for tonight's thought I hope everyone has a goodnight and a great day tomorrow.